Fathers: Imperfect, Yet Invaluable - Reflections for Father’s Day

June 15, 2025 – Father’s Day

For the first time in my life, I found myself pausing to truly reflect on fathers—my own, yours, and every father figure who has quietly shaped a life.

We often take a father for granted—sometimes casting him as a hero, other times as a flawed figure, depending on our life’s circumstances. But a deep, honest exploration of his role is rarely attempted. It certainly wasn’t part of my reflections—until now.

So, what does a father really do?

A father is a protector, provider, guide, and role model. He offers strength with gentleness and teaches more by example than by words. He prepares his children not just to live—but to thrive—in a world full of challenges.

Often, he does this by exposing us to life’s harsher truths under a watchful eye, creating safe yet tough spaces for us to grow resilient. This seemingly hard role is rooted in quiet love and a long-term vision for our well-being.

A father is never picture-perfect. He’s not meant to be. His true worth lies in his presence, intentions, values, and the example he sets.

And here’s the irony: we may feel his physical absence most in later life—but that’s exactly when we realize how deeply present he still is in our being. Isn’t that a powerful testament to his lasting influence?


So, today, let’s celebrate that presence. Let’s cherish his memories—not just with nostalgia, but with gratitude.

Happy Father’s Day to all.



Comments

How do we know said…
What a lovely and realistic description of fatherhood. Many of us have memories of fathers who were too unavailable, too physically absent. And yet, we miss them and their presence later in lives, exactly as you said.
J P Joshi said…
Thank you for your considered comment, How do we know. I am happy that you could relate with the same.